A friendly social ghost! When someone disappears from your life .. but with respect
Do you remember Casper? The friendly ghost that we have always enjoyed in the animation series, which has always been seeking to search for friends and extend the hand of friendship instead of raising fear. This gentle cartoon character is today an inspiration for a new term in the world of social and emotional relations "Kaspering", expressing separation in a more kind and respectful way. Just as Casper was dealing with others Bod and Hanan, the term "Caspering" or the friendly ghost suggests a less harsh end of the relationships, by gradually reducing communication and in a polite way.
In the world of modern social relations and technology, many terms that represent new behaviors appeared in social media. Among these terms, we find ghosting or social ghost, which is the sudden and complete interruption of communicating with a person without warning or clarifying the reasons.
This behavior can leave the other person in a state of confusion and emotional pain. On the other hand, we find the term Casping or the friendly ghost, which is gradually reducing communication and in a polite way.
This behavior seeks to reduce emotional damage and gives the opportunity to the other person to understand the situation and adapt to it.
Explanation of the reasons or the disappearance silently?
One of the most prominent differences between the two social terms "caspering" and "Gusting" or friendly ghost and frightening ghost is communication and clarity of intentions.
When one of the two parties is the "Ghost" or the frightening social ghost, the person suddenly cuts without clarification, causing pain and confusion to the other party. According to a study published in the Journal of Social and Personal Relations, this behavior can negatively affect the person’s sense of belonging and self -confidence.
As for "Casper" or the friendly ghost, it is characterized by the gradual mitigation of communication, which provides the opportunity to express intentions and feelings, and is restored to respect and sympathy in the social or emotional relationship.
Respect and preservation of dignity
The need to close or closing in relationships is an essential part of social and emotional relationships. People who need to understand the reasons behind the end of the relationship may find it difficult to adapt to the "ghost" or social ghost. As for the friendly "Casper", the friendly ghost, for his part, provides an opportunity for an explicit dialogue on the reasons that made the relationship not suitable, and provides the opportunity for personal growth and self -improvement. This open dialogue can ultimately lead to a friendly separation and leave the door open to relations or friendships in the future without psychological contract, and maintains self -esteem and dignity, as the respect of the other party appears.
Despite the speed and comfort that modern communication technology may offer, the friendly ghost "Casper" shows that there are more human ways to deal with relationships, where the feelings of others are recognized and dealt with with caution and respect.