Procrustean Bed
A Greek myth, centered around a blacksmith, who invited people to stay with him for the night; Then he places them on a bed in his house. Whoever is taller than the bed, he amputates the excess, and whoever is shorter, he extends his limbs until they are torn.
The only person who survives it is the one whose body size fits the size of the bed!!!
But in reality, this is not only a myth, but unfortunately the reality for many of us. We have in our minds the bed of Procrustes, because - often - we do not accept anyone as he is, but rather we take the initiative to cram him into an image that we create for him, and we get rid of what does not agree with it,
So we must think carefully, throw this bed out of our minds, and learn that people have different sizes and visions.
And not to put them in a specific, pre-made framework, create it for them and then blame them if they violate it, or deviate from it!!!
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